Driving a car and owning a car was originally supposed to be an instrument of convenience to take you from one place to another and not an instrument of social class or status.
Much is going on in society today people have very high respect for somebody who is driving a car, if you were on foot and you went to the same place the respect you would command would not be as much as it would be if you came in in a car and that is scary because whatever it is that we are seeing today is a function of what has been established from a long time ago where people have more respect for people who drive cars and little or no respect for those with motorcycle or even on foot.
In my present-day community if you go in a car and you meet with a police officer on the way the respect you command before him will be massive
He feels that you want to give him money so he respects you so much that you could reach out to your pocket and give money but if you packed that car and you went through the same road maybe with the motorcycle he will almost slap you or even get you insulted because you are not on the car surprisingly he may not even know that you were the same person who just drove past him in a car and that's the shocking part of it all people could borrow cards you know not everybody's able to buy a car at least not immediately but why do we have so much respect for people unfollex and little on no respect for those who are just working on food it is absurd and I think it is time for our community to begin to think again about what we regard as value.
If you are a young man and you go to visit with the family of the lady you have eyes on and you probably want to marry her, some of the family members will go outside to check whether you came in a car, if you drove in they have a way they will talk to you probably their psychology has been affected who knows but they have a way to talk to you that you almost feel at home because they feel that you would reach out to your pocket and drop alot of things before you left or that their sister is secured with you, but if you came on foot they may think you are up to nothing so they almost write you off and it is amazing because sometimes you could have rented a car to get there or maybe decide not to come in your car if you had one.
But why do we have so much respect for vehicles what is the use of the car? A car is supposed to take you from one place to another.
Sadly, if you go to a party in a car, you make a statement; if you try talking to a lady while in a car, you are making a serious statement; if you go back to the village in a car, you have made a public statement.
This culture is abused, and we have to fix it as soon as we can, we need to understand the real definition of success how that it's not in the abundance of things a man possess