Why?

People are capable, at any time in their lives, of doing what they dream of. - Paulo Coelho!

This book was given to me by one of the smartest people I know: My Mom.

I do not say this lightly, but this gem has truly changed my life…This book motivated me more than any other book I have read to head out into the world and start my own global exploration of deconstructing HIM.

Enjoy.

The book’s protagonist, Santiago, is a shepherd from Andalucía.  He loves his sheep, but he cannot help but notice the limited nature of the flock’s existence.

Only watching down at the grass, eating, drinking water. Santiago notices that the sheep never lift their heads to marvel at the beauty of the green hills or the sunsets.

Santiago’s parents have struggled with the basics of life and have put aside their own dreams, visions, and ambitions accordingly.

Santiago is different. He can read, and he wants to travel. One day he goes into a village to sell some of his sheep, there he encounters a gipsy woman. Santiago tells the gipsy women about his dream.

She urges him to “follow the signs” and leave his “old world” behind. She then points towards the pyramids of Egypt and tells him he will find his treasure there.

Santiago believes her. Santiago then, at a point of despair, meets Melchizedek, who claims to be the king of Salem. He echoes the gipsy’s advice that it is Santiago’s purpose to journey to the pyramids.

He sold all his sheep and sets sail for Tangier. In Tangier, a thief robs Santiago of all his belongings and savings. Weirdly, Santiago is not devasted; he feels that he is on the right path. Things have been set into motion, and going back is not an option.

After being robbed, Santiago starts to work with a local crystal merchant. After learning invaluable lessons from the merchant, Santiago cashes in all his earnings to pursue his personal legend: to find the treasure at the feet of the pyramids.

He joins a caravan crossing the Sahara desert toward Egypt. There, he meets an Englishman who is studying alchemy and who is looking for an Alchemist at an oasis.

He learns that the secret of alchemy is written on a stone called the “Emerald Tablet”.

{hint why my favorite color is green}.

The ultimate goal for the alchemist is the creating of the Philosophers Stone. It can turn things to gold and produce a liquid that can cure all ills and make people almost immortal.

Santiago joins the Englishman who is travelling to an oasis of Al-Fayoum. He learns that there resides a powerful 200 – year old Alchemist.

Because of violent tribal wars, the caravan is forced to stop at the oasis for an extended period of time.

In the oasis, Santiago falls in love with Fatima, who lives in the oasis. On a random walk through the oasis, Santiago has a vision that the oasis is going to be attacked by other tribes. 

He warns the tribal chieftains of the attack, and as a result, Al-Fayoum can defend itself against the assault. The alchemist hears about Santiago’s vision and invites him on a trip into the desert. 

There the alchemist teaches Santiago about the importance of listening to the signs of the universe, and to pursue one owns legend.

The alchemist then convinces Santiago to leave Fatima behind so he can finish his journey to the pyramids.

The alchemist also offers to accompany Santiago on the next part of his trip and teach him.

On their trip to the pyramids, the caravan gets captured by a tribe of Arab soldiers. 

In exchange for their, his life, and the life of Santiago, the alchemist hands over all of his belongings and tells the soldiers that Santiago is a powerful alchemist who will turn into wind within three days.

Santiago freaks out, after all, he has no clue how to turn into the wind. After meditating for three days, Santiago communicates with the wind and the sun to get help from them. 

They help him to create a powerful sandstorm.  He then prays to “the hand that wrote it all”, and the height of the storm disappears. Because of this feat, the tribesman let the alchemist and Santiago go free.

The alchemist continues to travel with Santiago.  In a Coptic monastery,the alchemist demonstrates that it is possible to turn things into gold.

He gives Santiago this gold and sends him to the pyramids alone.  In front of the pyramids, Santiago starts digging. There, two men find him and start beating him.

Santiago opens up about his dream vision; they then decide that he is a hopeless fool who by no chance can have any money.

Before leaving, one of the hoodlums tries to illustrate the stupidity of dreams by telling Santiago his own dream. The dream of the hoodlum is about a treasure buried in an abandoned church in Spain, where a fig tree grows. 

The church is the same one where Santiago had his dream. After hearing this, Santiago returns to Spain, to find a chest of gold and jewels and artefacts. After finding his treasure, he decides to go back to Al-Fayoum where he will reunite with Fatima, his beloved who will await him.

One of the most important concepts from The Alchemist is the necessity of having a dream or a future that is compelling enough that it justifies your suffering.

Santiago, on his journey, very often encounters hardship and crisis.  He can continue to put one foot in front of the other because he outlined a personal blueprint of what his perfect life would be.

Finding his treasure outweighs the suffering and discomfort that undertaking such a daring adventure brings with it.

I believe we all need a “why” that is so compelling that it motivates us to do the hard things.

Every morning, every human being in the world is confronted with the decision: Do I get up today?

One commonality among extremely unhappy people is their lack of meaning and their inexistence of a compelling future.

I think we all agree that life is also suffering. Every morning we are confronted with an evaluation.

Does the pleasure and fulfilment of my existence outweigh my suffering and discomfort?

I firmly believe that to withstand life’s difficulty, we MUST have a dream. 

We must have a WHY.

“He who has a why to live for can bear almost anyhow.” - Friedrich Nietzsche

Dreams, in consequence, are not something for only children or aspiring singers, athletes or artists.  Dreams are necessary for survival.

Jordan Peterson, one of my most favourite eccentric psychologists, does a great job at emphasising how important it is to have a personal concept for hell and heaven.

Jordan Peterson "Heaven and Hell are as Real as You Make Them" - The Joe Rogan Experience

Exercise Time!

Grab a piece of paper. The goal of this exercise is that you outline heaven and hell for yourself on paper.

Ask yourself, what would be your equivalent of Santiago’s treasure?  What would your perfect life look like? 

Then ask yourself the counter questions. What does your personal hell look like? What would be your personal rock bottom? 

After outlining those constructs, evaluates your current behaviours/decisions/people in your life. Which one of them is moving you towards your version of heaven, which one of them is moving you towards hell? 

Life suck’s sometimes. A big difference between people who are happy and unhappy, in my opinion, is their ability to reorganise setbacks.

Failure does not exist. One thing I’ve learned from The Alchemist is that setbacks all have their own lessons. Life is, whether we like it or not, always teaching us something.

The Alchemist was one of the books that helped me to see my own struggle, for example, with mental health and depression, not as a curse but as a resource. If you are overcoming something, you can teach others how to overcome it as well.  Teaching people on “how NOT to do things”,is equally as powerful as giving someone a perfect how-to-do list.

So, the next time you are going through some tough shit, instead of saying that you are having a breakdown, why not say instead that you are having a breakthrough?

One of my favourite mantras of the book is the idea of following your own destiny. We are all authors, writing our own story, each and every day. Weirdly, we rarely take control of the narrative of our own life’s journey. At a certain point, we have to stop compromising and radically answer for ourselves who we want to be and how we want to live.

So whatever you are doing right now: stop, and put on your camera or take a look in the next mirror and ask yourself; Am I living the life I want to live? Take a brutally honest look in the mirror and ask yourself, where am I short-selling my own potential?  Where am I deceiving myself? 

Can I give more? Where am I making my life worse than it has to be? Am I living my best life?

We all constantly have the power the leave a chapter of our lives behind, and start writing a new one. 

Limitless creativity.

Years ago, when I was traveling as a young nephew, I met with a fascinating guy who was struggling with addiction.

I met him when he was in recovery, so he was already on his way back to functionality and health. I asked him what helped him to overcome his crippling addiction.

He told me that one day he was asked in his church by a young priest if he believes that he was sent to this earth to live his life as an addict.

This shook him to the core because it revealed to him that he was living a life less of what he was capable of living. It became obvious to him that he alone was the pain of his existence.

I believe we all have great things waiting for us as soon as we start pursuing our dreams, the very damn title of our life’s book changes.

So for the future, always ask yourself when doing things: Is this action moving me towards my personal hell or my personal heaven?

yeah I have all these flaws…

but look at what I am trying to do,

and why I am doing it…