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Chaos of Creativity

Overcoming Writer's Block: Lessons from a New Writer

By Chika-Umeh Chinelo Valerie

A New Writer Exploring the Chaos of Creativity

Writer's block. It’s that frustrating moment when you sit down to write, staring at a blank screen, and... nothing. No words come out. No ideas feel coherent—or worse, they feel nonexistent.

As someone who recently started writing, I just learned about this phenomenon. And let me tell you, experiencing it firsthand is frustrating.

For me, writer's block isn’t just about not knowing what to write. Sometimes, it’s the pressure to make my writing perfect or the fear that what I create won’t be good enough. Other times, it’s stress, distractions, or simply exhaustion.

The blank page feels like it’s judging you, and every word you attempt to write feels wrong. It’s disheartening, and it can feel endless.

But I’m learning. As I navigate this writing journey, I’ve discovered a few strategies that help me push through the block. Here’s what’s been working for me so far:

  1. Write Anything (Even If It’s Terrible)

Sometimes, the hardest part is just starting. I’ve learned to give myself permission to write badly. It’s okay if the words don’t flow perfectly at first. What matters is getting something—anything—on the page. Editing comes later.

  1. Set Tiny Goals

I’m someone who thrives on setting goals, and I’ve realized that smaller ones work best for writing. Instead of aiming to write a whole chapter or article, I focus on one paragraph, one sentence, or even one word. Breaking it down makes the task feel manageable.

  1. Talk It Out

If I can’t write, I talk. Sometimes, I explain my ideas out loud—even if I’m the only one listening. Saying the words helps my thoughts take shape. I also have a friend whose DMs I shamelessly rant in when I need to work through an idea.

The Biggest Lesson: Be Kind to Yourself

One of the most valuable things I’ve learned is that beating yourself up over writer’s block only makes it worse. Creativity isn’t something you can force, and it’s okay to have off days. Sometimes, your brain just needs a break.

Writer’s block doesn’t mean you’re not a good writer. It doesn’t mean you’ve run out of ideas forever. It’s just a temporary roadblock. And like any roadblock, you can find a way around it.

What Works for You?

If you’ve ever struggled with writer’s block, I’d love to hear how you overcame it. Share your tips and tricks—I’m always looking for new ideas to try.

Remember, the words will come. You just have to keep showing up for them.

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